INTJ-A
人在上海
相貌乖巧
日常温柔，背地变态
有些孤独，享受孤独
有些安静，内心丰富
双重人格，斯文败类
爱电音，也爱民谣
一个 BDSM 爱好者
一个比较准的算命的
一个爱写故事的程序员
My Attributes#
Time#
First practice in 2014-2015, then got involved in the circle.
Attributes#
S attribute - 70%, Dom attribute - 30%. Born as a strong S, hoping to deconstruct and control everything in the world. Will have a disciplinary desire towards people of interest. An angel and a devil at the same time, usually kind and gentle, rarely argues with others, difficult to get angry, but once a decision is made, it cannot be easily changed. If you can arouse my sadistic desire, I will completely immerse myself in it, enjoying playing with and observing reactions, the more torment, the more excited.
Personality#
Usually gentle and easygoing, not indifferent, not serious, loves to smile, appears as a sunny boy. Can get along well with many people, but has few friends. Likes to think, spends most of the time in a mask that suits the current environment. Believes that everyone should have their own ideas, no matter how absurd, they should be respected. Once a decision is made, it is difficult to change, but decisions are not made lightly. After being disappointed in someone, I will choose to keep my distance or maintain a surface-level relationship, but there is a clear sense of boundaries. Socially anxious, difficult to flatter others, most of the time, I will think about what to say, but can't say it. Won't say anything too harsh or hurtful, all words must go through the brain.
Understanding#
Training is a two-person thing, all rules should be made by both people. Every encounter is worth cherishing. Every person is a treasure. Willing to be inclusive and explore unknown ways of playing.
Preferences#
Playing with shame, controlling orgasms, exhibitionism, SP, slapping, bondage, rope bondage, facials, etc.
Have tried almost all types of play, except for golden showers and permanent damage. The core source of pleasure comes from two aspects: sadism and the submissive's uncontrollable and depraved reactions.
Skills#
Novice rope artist: Limited conditions, haven't unlocked suspension yet. Have my own ideas about bondage, like to try new tying methods, will be inspired by the environment and needs.
Handmade leather goods: Can make collars, bracelets, handcuffs, etc. Not making a living from it, all works are inspired by the feelings towards the people I meet or life. Won't make the same thing twice.
Candle making: Can make low-temperature essential oil candles, great feedback on the user experience.
Jute rope treatment: Unique rope oil formula, processing procedure.
Fortune-telling: Know a little about Zhouyi divination, based on historical experience and feedback, the current results are quite accurate.
Taboos#
Golden showers, permanent damage.